I’m a problem solver and an idealist. This can be a bad combination at times. As a problem solver, I naturally see problems in the world and think of ways to change them. As an idealist, I see the gap between how things are and the way things could be and become frustrated. Being a problem solver and an idealist is a recipe for frustration – and frustration isn’t productive.
I had lunch today with my good friend Phil Anderson. Phil is an expert in connecting dots. He works with non-profits, communities, leadership organizations, and other groups to help bring people and ideas together. He makes things happen.
During our lunch Phil and I began talking about the idea of servant leadership. Phil’s eyes lit up and he reached in his bag and pulled out a bookmark. Words were printed on the bookmark, and they were Anyway – The Paradoxical Commandments by Kent Keith. The Paradoxical Commandments were written in 1968 as part of a booklet for student leaders. They are 10 “commandments” to inspire servant leadership. The idea of “anyway” is that despite obstacles (and haters) we choose to think and act positively anyway.
The first of the paradoxical commandments is my favorite:
People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. Love them anyways.
Easy to say. Difficult to practice.
Phil let me keep the bookmark.
Now I want to know: How do you stay positive? Share your thoughts and leave a comment.
